The next meeting of
Quest Forums is taking place on July 10. We will be looking at another one of
those “church–y” words that Christians often use but that can be frequently
misunderstood. The topic this time will be prayer, and I thought my article for
this week could take a short look at one of the things we are likely to
discuss. Consider it an appetizer, and if you are interested, think about
joining us for the main course this Sunday!
The Desires of Your Heart
One popular verse on
prayer is Psalm
37:4, which reads, “Delight yourself also in the Lord,
and He shall give you
the desires of your heart.” The first part of the verse is important, but it
generally gets short shrift. Most of the time we focus on the second half, so
that is where I’m going to start.
The reason this verse
is associated with prayer is because of this “desires of your heart” concept. There
is an implicit assumption, which I believe is reasonable, that desires have to
be expressed. We communicate what we need with the Lord. That is one of the key
aspects of prayer, known as supplication. In fact, we often think of it as the
major purpose of prayer. That is not quite true (praise is more important), but
it is still a legitimate form of prayer and one we are told to do by Scripture.
Psalm 37:4 ties into
this concept because it seems to suggest a cause and effect. If you are faithful,
when you tell the Lord what you need, He will give it to you. It is a promise,
a promise that we can trust the Lord to give us what we require.
Reading the Promise
Wrong
But there is a problem.
Too often, this is treated as an absolute promise and an automatic formula. If
you are really well behaved, living up to God’s expectations, then He has to
give you whatever you ask. In other words, people sometimes read it as though
it creates a debt. God is obligated to give us what we want if we serve Him
properly.
There are a few major
issues with this view. For one thing, that concept of God owing us anything is
unbiblical. He is faithful, meaning we can rely on Him to fulfill His word and
to look over us. But that does not mean we can force His hand. Thinking of
Psalm 37:4 that way puts things in the wrong order. Our righteousness does not
make God work for us. We are to be righteous because we know God is already
watching over us.
For another, it can be
ruinous to our faith. If we treat this promise as a formula, what happens when
we don’t get what we want? Either we will think God does not actually care
about us, or that we are not good enough for Him. We aren’t, of course, but
that is beside the point. We are not to live up to God, but to trust Him. And
we are to trust Him whether we get what we want or not. If we treat our
relationship like a contract instead, we will be disappointed.
Reading the Promise
Right
This leads us back to
the first part of the verse, and a way of looking at the whole thing that could
be more helpful. Remember, there is a promise here. If we delight ourselves in
the Lord, we will get the desires of our hearts. It is a calling to a lifestyle,
which is in fact a different aspect of prayer. Delighting in the Lord means to
seek Him. That should be our attitude in prayer: not getting the things we
want, but getting closer to our Father. And in turn, that puts a bit of a spin
on receiving our desires.
You see, the promise is
not just that we will get what we seek. It is that we will be given the desire
to seek the right things. When we draw closer to the Lord, we have different goals.
We hope to see His will done, rather than our own. We start to want the things
He wants, and to accept them in His timing. That is when He gives them to us. And
in that frame of mind, it is less about the gifts and more about our relationship
with the giver.
This same idea is present
in 1
John 5:14, 15. We get what we ask when our requests are according to God’s
will, in keeping with His heart. The only way to know what that means is to
approach Him, and to constantly draw closer to Him. Prayer is not wishing, and
God is not a genie. It is how we communicate our love and dependence to our
Lord and Savior.
If you have never
thought of the promise of prayer this way before, I hope you got something out
of this article. Maybe it will help you see what God wants to give you, which
is most of all a relationship with Him. And if you have thought of Psalm 37:4
this way before, then I hope this was at least a little reminder. Sometimes life
gets in the way and we think we are blocked from attaining the things we need.
But God never stops loving us. If we trust Him, we can know we will eventually
be given what He has in store. That hope certainly should cause us to delight
in Him, and push us onward in life’s quest.
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